Honoring the Fallen: What Memorial Day truly means

As the unofficial start of summer, Memorial Day weekend is often marked by cookouts, parades, and time with loved ones. But at its heart, Memorial Day is a solemn day of remembrance—dedicated to honoring the men and women who died while serving in the United States Armed Forces.

Observed each year on the last Monday in May, Memorial Day traces its roots back to the years following the Civil War. Originally known as Decoration Day, it was a time when Americans would decorate the graves of fallen soldiers with flowers, flags, and wreaths. The tradition spread quickly, and by the late 1800s, communities across the country held ceremonies to honor those lost in war.

In 1971, Memorial Day became a federal holiday. While it is often confused with Veterans Day—which honors all who have served—Memorial Day specifically honors those who died in military service to the nation.

Today, Memorial Day serves as a powerful reminder of the cost of freedom. Across the country, towns and cities host parades, memorial services, and moments of silence. Flags fly at half-staff until noon, and families visit cemeteries to place flowers on the graves of loved ones who served.

It’s a time to reflect on the courage, sacrifice, and unwavering commitment of those who gave their lives for the United States. For many, it’s also a day to support Gold Star families and military communities who continue to bear the weight of that loss.

While backyard barbecues and gatherings are part of the day, Americans are encouraged to pause—if only for a moment—to remember the real reason for the holiday. Whether by attending a ceremony, teaching children the importance of the day, or simply flying a flag, each act of remembrance ensures that the sacrifices of our fallen heroes are never forgotten.